Dear Destiny, I need wisdom...

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Dear Destiny, I need wisdom
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You're never too much, and you're not alone

Whether it's the client you can't say no to, the partner who gets whatever's left of you, the family who assumes you're fine, or the decision you've been circling for weeks, sometimes you need someone who gets it. Dear Destiny is a space to share what's really on your mind, without worrying about who's watching.

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Dear Destiny,

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Maybe it sounds like this.

  1. “How do I say no to a client when I know I can help them?”

  2. “Why does my partner get the version of me that is already spent?”

  3. “Everyone in my family thinks I’m fine. How do I tell them I’m not?”

  4. “How do I hear my own yes or no when everyone needs something from me?”

Dear Destiny, I need wisdom

You can get to know me, too.

I know what it costs to be the one everyone counts on. If you want to know who’s reading these stories, I’ll tell you mine.

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